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Shoba Narayan

Shoba Narayan is Bangalore-based award-winning author. She is also a freelance contributor who writes about art, food, fashion and travel for a number of publications.

Articles by Shoba Narayan

The perils of a family WhatsApp group

Where long-lost relatives are forced into camaraderie in the most artificial of environments

The columnist’s mother never wants her offspring to spend more than “a decent amount” on her b’day celebration. This amount is Rs300!(Photo Imaging by Parth Garg)
Updated on Oct 28, 2018 12:53 AM IST
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The Dalai Lama’s take on ageing and wisdom Part 3:The monk and the mother

When you are caught in the middle of a conflict, take the Dalai Lama’s advice: think for yourself

The late Marion Woodman, a psychologist, talks about love as “the energy that cherishes,” that helps everyone around you flower(Photo imaging: Parth Garg)
Published on Oct 13, 2018 10:23 PM IST
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The Dalai Lama’s take on ageing and wisdom part 2: The monk and the Jungian psychologist

When you are torn by anger, take the Dalai Lama’s simple advice: be kind

When you feel love rising in your heart, your own body calms down and eases up on the anger(Photo imaging by Parth Garg)
Updated on Sep 29, 2018 11:00 PM IST
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The Dalai Lama’s take on ageing and wisdom part 1: The monk and the smartphone junkie

When you’re mentally scattered by social media, take the Dalai Lama’s simple advice: think!

Most of us use every moment that can offer a lull to check our phones(Shutterstock)
Updated on Sep 15, 2018 10:24 PM IST
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Travelling with parents part 3: Unexpected brushes with the ordinary

When abroad, there’s never any warning about how septuagenarian parents will behave

Shoba’s mother spent the entire trip in Singapore driving the electric buggy, having a blast(Shoba Narayan)
Updated on Sep 01, 2018 10:36 PM IST
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Travelling with parents part 2: Fathers and daughters

A fallen walking stick and a wheelchair can change all perspectives

Shoba’s parents liked the way the wax version of Prime Minister Narendra Modi was dressed at the Madame Tussauds in Sentosa Island(Shoba Narayan)
Updated on Aug 18, 2018 10:55 PM IST
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Eating butter chicken at 32,000 feet

Away from the routines of home, Mum and Dad can be totally different people

Travel, in case of some parents, is a way of recapturing their younger selves(Istock)
Updated on Aug 04, 2018 10:36 PM IST
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Sharing secret lives and riotous deaths

Who do you share good news and bad news with, and why? Your family, or your FB ‘friends’?

Is the point of sharing to crow about your accomplishments or expand your human connections?(Photo Imaging: Parth Garg)
Updated on Jul 21, 2018 09:38 PM IST
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Save your marriage, plant a tree

Yes, that might actually work in a world where phubbing has becoming a relationship killer

Using a cellphone in bed is a common point of discord among couples(Photo Imaging: Parth Garg)
Updated on Jul 07, 2018 10:32 PM IST
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Are you a texter or a talker?

Generation Older wants its information now. Gen Y merely wants messages it can ignore

The youth of today will go to extraordinary lengths not to have a conversation(Photo Imaging: Parth Garg)
Updated on Jun 29, 2018 12:12 PM IST
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Realities of virtual thefts

It’s difficult to protect our loved ones from threats posed by cyber attacks

We inhabit cyber space with ever-changing norms and rules. How do we keep up?(Photo Imaging: Parth Garg)
Updated on Jun 09, 2018 07:50 PM IST
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What to do when guilt and irritation are mixed with love

The curd-rice solution for feuding sons and mothers...

Curd rice cannot bring in world peace, but it certainly can calm down a mother and son who love-hate each other(Photo illustration: Parth Garg)
Updated on May 26, 2018 09:56 PM IST
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To go or not to go: That is the question

Want peace and harmony within the family? Check out the Abilene Paradox

In the Abilene Paradox, a group does something that nobody wants to do because each person thinks that everyone else wants to do it!(Shutterstock)
Updated on May 13, 2018 01:59 AM IST
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Padaneer: the perfect summer cooler for parched souls

A dubious drink made from the sap of the palmyra tree brings back my childhood and my grandmother

My grandmother loved drinking the sap of the palmyra tree because my grandfather disapproved of her drinking it(Photo Imaging: Parth Garg)
Updated on Apr 28, 2018 09:34 PM IST
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Of Snapchat stalkers and Musical.ly yours

How pretentious are you in your online updates? And how real should you be?

Living our lives on social media may be great for our personal brand, but it also means giving up a bit of our soul(Photo Imaging: Parth Garg)
Updated on Apr 20, 2018 01:42 PM IST
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When ‘vanity’ is a phone number

What should you do when you can pick the digits of your phone number? Ask the astrologer of course!

To get her new SIM card, my mother called up our family astrologer to pick the number accordingly(Photo Imaging: Parth Garg)
Updated on Apr 01, 2018 12:54 AM IST
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The adult life: Parenting the parents

You become an adult when your parent becomes a child

My parents’ relationship is beyond the realm of words or date nights or flowers on anniversaries. Their bond is primal(Dinodia)
Updated on Mar 17, 2018 10:23 PM IST
Hindustan Times | ByShoba Narayan

The proverbial power of words!

In a game of words, proverbs can often prove to be match-winners

The beauty of Indian proverbs is that they sound pithy and powerful. They made me feel like an orator(Shutterstock)
Published on Mar 03, 2018 08:58 PM IST
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The Indian’s common challenge: after an age, how to parent your parents...

We are united not only by our love of spicy food, cricket and movies, but also by the fact that many of us are parenting our parents

Comedy livened with moments of tenderness that borders on the sublime also unites us Indians(Photo Imaging: Parth Garg)
Published on Feb 17, 2018 10:23 PM IST
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Women of India, unite -- you’ve nothing to lose

The notion of women’s empowerment dictating a vote is a nuance that few care about. But I argue here that they should

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Updated on Apr 07, 2009 03:58 PM IST
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Heart in the right place

Tharoor’s instruction to 2,000 Keralites to sing the national anthem in American fashion was foolish. It showed that he wasn’t in touch with the customs and practices of his state. I doubt that Tharoor meant to insult the Indian national anthem. If anything, he probably meant more respect, not disrespect, writes Shoba Narayan.

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Updated on Mar 27, 2009 11:18 PM IST
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Muthalik and the Mahatma

If nightclubs in New York can hold a ‘bhangra night’, why can’t the nightclubs in Mumbai have a ‘dandiya night’? The Mahatma would be happy — and Muthalik would have one less grouse. Shoba Narayan elaborates.

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Updated on Feb 07, 2009 10:37 PM IST
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