8 ways to get your kids to listen without yelling
Published on May 27, 2023 07:59 PM IST
- Patience, consistency, and a positive approach are key when trying to encourage your child to listen without resorting to yelling.
1 / 9
View Photos in a new improved layout
Published on May 27, 2023 07:59 PM IST
It's natural for parents to want their children to listen and cooperate without resorting to yelling. Here are some effective strategies to encourage your child to listen and communicate better: (Unsplash)
2 / 9
View Photos in a new improved layout
Published on May 27, 2023 07:59 PM IST
Set clear expectations: Clearly communicate your expectations and rules to your child in a calm and consistent manner. Make sure they understand what behaviour is acceptable and what is not. (Unsplash)
3 / 9
View Photos in a new improved layout
Published on May 27, 2023 07:59 PM IST
Use positive reinforcement: Praise and acknowledge your child when they listen or follow instructions. Positive reinforcement can be in the form of verbal praise, a small reward, or even a simple gesture like a high-five or a hug. (Unsplash)
4 / 9
View Photos in a new improved layout
Published on May 27, 2023 07:59 PM IST
Give them choices: Allow your child to have some control over their decisions within certain boundaries. For example, instead of saying, "Put on your shoes," you can say, "Would you like to wear your blue shoes or your red shoes today?" This gives them a sense of autonomy and may increase their willingness to cooperate. (Unsplash)
5 / 9
View Photos in a new improved layout
Published on May 27, 2023 07:59 PM IST
Use a calm and respectful tone: When talking to your child, use a calm and respectful tone of voice. Speak to them in a manner that you would like them to respond to you. Yelling or raising your voice can create tension and make it harder for your child to listen. (Unsplash)
6 / 9
View Photos in a new improved layout
Published on May 27, 2023 07:59 PM IST
Use active listening: Pay attention to what your child is saying and show genuine interest. Give them your full attention, maintain eye contact, and respond thoughtfully. When children feel heard and understood, they are more likely to listen in return. (Unsplash)
7 / 9
View Photos in a new improved layout
Published on May 27, 2023 07:59 PM IST
Offer a warning or countdown: If you need your child to transition from one activity to another, give them a warning or a countdown. For example, say, "In five minutes, we'll be leaving the playground," or "You have ten more minutes to play before it's bath time." This gives them a chance to mentally prepare for the change and reduces resistance. (Unsplash)
8 / 9
View Photos in a new improved layout
Published on May 27, 2023 07:59 PM IST
Provide a reason or explanation: Children are more likely to comply with requests when they understand the reasoning behind them. Instead of simply giving commands, explain why it's important or necessary for them to follow through. This helps them develop reasoning skills and encourages cooperation. (Unsplash)
9 / 9
View Photos in a new improved layout
Published on May 27, 2023 07:59 PM IST