Dangers of trying to fix your partner
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- From emotional disconnect to undermining the confidence of the partner, here are a few dangers of trying to fix the partner.
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In a relationship, we often try to fix the partner. When something goes wrong and we feel that we should walk our partner through their journey of healing, we start the process of trying to fix their emotions. "What all of these core reasons have in common is knowing how to regulate your own nervous system and emotions. Being able to be present with what’s happening and let go of the past is an essential tool for navigating change," wrote Relationship Coach Stefanos. Here are some of the negative effects of trying to fix the partner.(Unsplash)
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When the partner shares something, we often jump into the process of fixing a problem. This often makes them feel that something is wrong with them. (Unsplash)
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As they feel unheard and unreciprocated, they can also move away emotionally, leading to a disconnect. (Unsplash)
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When we are uncomfortable with our own emotions, we often focus on their emotions and try to fix them. (Unsplash)
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The process of constantly avoiding emotional intimacy can lead to a rift in the relationship. (Unsplash)
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