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Self neglect: What does it look like? Psychologist explains

Published on Aug 06, 2024 07:40 PM IST
  • From negative self-talk to suppressing our sadness and frustration, here are a few signs of self-neglect that we should be aware of.
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When we do not prioritise ourselves and our emotions, we end up neglecting ourselves. “Are you neglecting yourself and your emotions? If your emotions were not tended to enough as a child, you may have learned that your emotional needs aren’t a priority. Even if your emotions were cared for as a child, you might have learned to suppress them at some point,” wrote Psychologist Carolyn Rubenstein as she explained the signs of self-neglect.(Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
Published on Aug 06, 2024 07:40 PM IST

When we do not prioritise ourselves and our emotions, we end up neglecting ourselves. “Are you neglecting yourself and your emotions? If your emotions were not tended to enough as a child, you may have learned that your emotional needs aren’t a priority. Even if your emotions were cared for as a child, you might have learned to suppress them at some point,” wrote Psychologist Carolyn Rubenstein as she explained the signs of self-neglect.(Unsplash)

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Instead of addressing the difficult emotions such as sadness, anger and frustration, we choose to suppress and ignore them. (Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
Published on Aug 06, 2024 07:40 PM IST

Instead of addressing the difficult emotions such as sadness, anger and frustration, we choose to suppress and ignore them. (Unsplash)

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We usually avoid situations where we may require to be vulnerable, such as intimate relationships or deep conversations. (Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
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We usually avoid situations where we may require to be vulnerable, such as intimate relationships or deep conversations. (Unsplash)

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We tend to prioritise and focus on the needs and feelings of others, rather than putting ourselves first. (Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
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We tend to prioritise and focus on the needs and feelings of others, rather than putting ourselves first. (Unsplash)

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We do not focus on our own happiness. We consciously reject things that can bring us joy, relaxation and a sense of fulfillment. (Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
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We do not focus on our own happiness. We consciously reject things that can bring us joy, relaxation and a sense of fulfillment. (Unsplash)

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We have a harsh inner critic, and we use negative talk. We also internalise the blame and shame for everything that goes wrong.(Unsplash) expand-icon View Photos in a new improved layout
Published on Aug 06, 2024 07:40 PM IST

We have a harsh inner critic, and we use negative talk. We also internalise the blame and shame for everything that goes wrong.(Unsplash)

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